That is one tough old girl! She is no longer confused, and her breathing is much better. We got to take her to church (right across the street) on Sunday, and all of her kids came to see her, bringing coffee and cookies to keep alive the tradition. My sweet son Steve stopped by the Golden Arches and brought 8 large coffees, complete with sugars and creamers. Gram was a bit miffed that she couldn't go out to lunch with all of us, but that would have been a bit too much for her at this stage. She'll get there!
We toured a beautiful assisted living facility on Saturday and my sister-in-law went back on Monday to put a deposit on an apartment. It'll be a bit before Gram is ready for that, but they are only 50% full right now, since they are brand new, so when she is ready it will be there for her.
In the meantime, Stan, Norma, Irene and I are trying to get her apartment emptied out. We paid for another month's rent on it, so hopefully that will give us enough time. Most of her stuff is going in a storage unit until she moves into her new place. We have, however, been hauling out bag after bag of trash! She is a frugal hoarder and saves everything, including the tags you cut off your new clothes. There are collectibles, and even some antiques. The antiques were probably new when she got them! It is a fun walk down memory lane, though. Every now and then one of us will stop what we're doing and show everybody what treasure we've found. I came home with a stack of dittoed sheets that were at collection of book reports written by Stan's class in the 5th grade.
We're wearing out, but there is more help out there, especially when we get to the big stuff, so we'll just keep plugging along. We were too busy to visit Gram yesterday-better not miss it today, we'll hear about it from her if we do!